Some people just naturally laugh a lot and are quick to smile, which is why it’s important to compare your interactions to other people’s.

Some people are just naturally complimentary, however. If you notice that he gives everyone compliments, it might not just be a you thing.

You might also catch him staring at you from across the room. If you happen to catch his eye, he’ll hold eye contact with you and smile.

On the flip side, if he has his arms crossed, his shoulders hunched, or his posture rigid, he might not be that into you (or he’s just in a really bad mood).

On the flip side, if he leans back or away from you, that doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t like you. Some people are more “relaxed” flirters, meaning that the more they like you, the more comfortable they’ll feel to lean away from you.

You can test this theory by “accidentally” brushing your hand against his. If he doesn’t flinch or pull away, he probably likes you.

The same goes for his cup if he’s drinking something—if he sets it down to the side and not directly in between you two, there’s a good chance he’s attracted to you.

There are other things that make people blush too, like alcohol and heat. But if you’re both stone cold sober and a little chilly, you’ll probably notice if he’s blushing because of you.

Confident guys probably won’t act super flustered around you. If the guy you’re wondering about tends to be a little cocky, he’ll probably act calm, cool, and collected no matter what.

When people are nervous, their voices sometimes get a little higher. If you notice any change to this guy’s voice, it’s probably a sign that he thinks you’re cute.

Keep in mind that some people really are super busy, and he might actually not have time to reply to you. If that’s the case, he could still be into you, even if he does take a while to text back.

On the other hand, if he only texts you one-word answers or short replies, he might not be that into you.

This is especially true if you have a pretty common name, because it means he had to work extra hard to find you. If he DMs you, sends you Snaps, or comments on all your posts, he’s into you.