There’s a lot of pressure put on finding the perfect spot for a proposal, but keep in mind that your partner might love a romantic moment more than a dream location. For example, you might ask them on your apartment balcony, but do it at night with soft candles and the stars shining so it’s really romantic.
For instance, if you know your partner hates being the center of attention, definitely don’t propose on the big screen at a sporting event. On the other hand, if you know they’d get a thrill out of having 50,000 people watching them say “yes,” go for it!
So long as you know it suits your partner, there’s nothing wrong with a marriage proposal being a sit-down conversation. Talk with your partner about the pros and cons of this momentous step. You could agree to marriage after this conversation or even follow it up with a more traditional proposal.
Not sure if they want a traditional proposal? Pay attention to how they respond to proposals involving friends or even celebrities. You could ask, “So, what did you think of that proposal?”
It’s not hard to get a ring sized, so don’t stress about getting the perfect fit without your partner realizing what you’re doing. Not everyone wants a diamond engagement ring! Pay attention to styles they like and don’t be afraid to go for something basic, vintage, or antique.
It’s completely fine to keep the proposal brief! You could say nice things about your partner and finish with the classic, “Will you marry me?” request at the end. For instance, say, “Alex, the last 2 years have been the best of my life. I want to spend the rest of my life being happy with you. Will you marry me?”
Consider where you’ll store the ring (if you’re using one). Pick an outfit with pockets or bring a bag/purse.
Instead of fretting over the details as the proposal happens, soak in the whole moment. After all, this should be a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Embrace nostalgia and talk about when you met: “When we first started dating, I couldn’t believe the cool skater girl wanted to go out with me. ” Describe what you love about them: “You’re one of the kindest, smartest, strongest people I know. You inspire me every day to become a better person. ” Talk about your future together: “Even though we’re both terrified of getting older, all I want to do is start a family and grow old with you. ” Ask the most important question: “Will you marry me?”
Talk about how you’ll make decisions together. For instance, if one of you gets offered a job and you’d both have to relocate, how would you decide what to do?
