Feel free to chat with your agender friends and acquaintances to see what the label means to them.
Brands like Nicopanda, Telfar, I and Me, RICH MNISI, Riley Studio, Wildfang, Entireworld, and Collusion are well-known for their “genderless” clothing options. [3] X Research source Remember: you don’t have to choose a set hairstyle and clothing style if you don’t want to! If you’re already comfortable with your clothing and hairstyle, you have no obligation to change things up.
Remember–while you’re more than welcome to change your name, you don’t have to if you don’t want to!
Gender Binary She/her/hers: She is talking right now. He/him/his: He is talking right now. Gender Neutral They/them/theirs (singular): They are talking right now. Ze/hir/hirs: (pronounced zhee, here, heres) Ze is talking right now. Ze/zir/zirs: (pronounced zhee, where, zheres) Ze is talking right now. Xe/xem/xyr: (pronounced zhee, zhym, zhyre) Xe is talking right now. You can use multiple sets of pronouns, too, if that makes you feel more comfortable!
She/her/hers: She is talking right now. He/him/his: He is talking right now.
They/them/theirs (singular): They are talking right now. Ze/hir/hirs: (pronounced zhee, here, heres) Ze is talking right now. Ze/zir/zirs: (pronounced zhee, where, zheres) Ze is talking right now. Xe/xem/xyr: (pronounced zhee, zhym, zhyre) Xe is talking right now.
“Just an FYI, but I use they/them pronouns, not she/her. ” “In the future, would you mind using he/him or they/them pronouns to refer to me?” “Could you use xe/xem pronouns when talking about me?”
“I’ve been thinking a lot about my identity lately, and I don’t feel like I fit inside the gender binary. I think I identify as agender now. ” “I identify as agender, and I’ve decided to use they/them pronouns. ” Some people find it easier to first “come out” to a non-human audience member, like a houseplant or a family pet. [9] X Research source Coming out to trusted friends and relatives can actually be a huge peace of mind, and help you build a valuable support system. [10] X Research source
Genderfluid: A person who has a shifting gender identity. Gender nonconforming (GNC): A person who doesn’t identify or follow societal gender norms. Bigender/Trigender/Pangender: A person who identifies as multiple genders simultaneously, or who shifts between these multiple gender identities. Demigirl/Demiguy: A person who identifies with some aspects of femininity or masculinity, but not all of them.
Facebook groups: Genderqueer, Agender, Neutrois, Genderfluid, and Non-binary discussion; Genderqueer/NB Gender and Gender Fluid Parents and Partners; Nonbinary People of Color (BIPOC); Bigender Support; Aces, Aros and Enbies; and more Subreddits: r/Agender; r/Androgyny; r/Genderfluid; r/Nonbinary; r/Ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby; r/Neutrois; and more Discord servers: Binary b gone; Enby Folk; Enby Pride Treehouse; Umbrella Zone: A hangout for all people under the non-binary umbrella; and more
Ask a parent, guardian, or other trusted adult to drive you to the event if you don’t have your driver’s license yet.
Day of Silence: April 12 International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia: May 17 LGBTQA+ Pride Month: June[15] X Research source
Liking an advocacy page on social media Correcting false information you see online Creating a blog dedicated to trans and gender-diverse issues
The Trevor Project: https://www. thetrevorproject. org/get-help/ LGBT Foundation: https://lgbt. foundation/helpline Kids Helpline: https://kidshelpline. com. au/get-help/webchat-counselling/
