Try wearing bold colors, flashy patterns, or a trendy look—something that’ll make you stand out from the crowd and make you feel fantastic. Flaunt what you got! Don’t shy away from showing off the best parts of yourself. Flex those muscles or flip that hair. You are incredible and she’s going to notice too!
Keep your social media updated with your latest successes. Post thoughtful captions about your hopes and dreams and pictures of you actively pursuing them.
Tap her on the shoulder and ask her on a date. Slip her a piece of paper with your number and a smooth compliment. Invite her to a social event she won’t be able to refuse like a house party or sporting event.
“You’ve got a great sense of humor. ” “I feel like I’m a better person around you. ” “You’re the sexiest person I’ve ever seen. ” “You’re my favorite person to see every day. ”
Tell her a joke that’ll have her laughing and cringing at the same time. Share a funny story about something embarrassing you did. Send her a funny video you found that made you cry with laughter.
Blindfold her and take her to a secret location in the woods where you’ve set up a romantic picnic. Buy her plane tickets to her dream destination. Take her skydiving, rock climbing, or hiking in a beautifully scenic area. Whatever adventure you take her on, keep it a surprise. She seeks the thrill, so let her try and figure it out as you go.
Try not to be clingy, mopey, or overly affectionate. A calm approach will make her crazy about you, so keep it together!
Ask your friends to hype you up when she’s around. Maybe they can share a story of when you were fearless, or they can drop a compliment about you in conversation.
Bring the bright side to every conversation. Think of ways you can cheer her up when she’s down like bringing her chocolates or being a smiling face she can always look to.
Ask her what she wants and doesn’t want in a relationship. You caring about her needs will be a big turn on! Be honest with her about your own boundaries, and she will be honest with you in return.
Have a friendly debate with her, but don’t shove down her opinion. Challenge her without making her feel incompetent. Inquire about her interests and thoughts on a topic you know you can have a casual conversation about.
Mind games will immediately turn her off—she’s much more than a prize to be won! Bring her on mini adventures or challenge her to a contact sport.
