When you first start seeing someone (even casually), you usually go out with them about once a week or so. It’s totally fine if you two see each other a little less than that, but it might be something to think about.
Never making plans could mean that she’s seeing other people, but unfortunately, it could also mean that she doesn’t want a committed relationship with you (regardless of the fact that she’s seeing other people or not). Either way, you might want to talk with her about it, just so you’re both on the same page.
The same thing goes if you call her and she responds with a text. A text is much more noncommittal, and it doesn’t take as much effort as a phone call does.
However, this could also mean that you two haven’t defined the relationship yet. If you want to be her partner, it’s worth bringing it up with her!
This is especially true if she’s already met a few of your friends or people that you’re close to.
It’s okay to bring up your ex every now and then, but if you two can’t go a full day without talking about past partners, that’s not a good sign.
Your date doesn’t ever have to give you full access to their phone (since that invades their privacy). However, even in casual relationships, you should be able to glance at your partner’s phone or change the music without them making a fuss.
Not everyone posts a lot on social media, which is totally fine. However, if she makes posts pretty often and you aren’t in them, there might be a reason why.
On the flip side, some people just don’t like their dates sleeping over when they have stuff to do in the morning (like work or school). If she’s just super busy, this might not be a bad sign.
She could also be picking fights about little things in the hopes that you’ll get mad enough to break it off with her.
On the other hand, some people like to take relationships slow so they feel totally comfortable with the other person before committing to them. If that’s the case for her, then this isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
Bring it up by saying something like, “Hey, I know we haven’t really talked about this yet, but could we chat about what we’re doing here? I really like you, and I hope you feel the same. ”
