If you speak another language, it can be really romantic to say, “I love you,” in a different language—like “Je t’aime” in French, “Te quiero” in Spanish, or “Saranghee yo” in Korean. [1] X Research source

“I love how you’re always up for an adventure. “[3] X Expert Source Imad JbaraDating Coach Expert Interview. 22 September 2021. “You have the best style!” “You’re always listening to the coolest music. " “It’s impossible to be in a bad mood around you!”

Do you have anything big coming up this week? What’s your biggest fear? What’s been your best day of the year so far? Do you have any really amazing childhood memories? If you could turn into any animal, what would it be?

If she says she has a math test on Tuesday, text her Tuesday afternoon and ask how it went. If she mentions that she loves Thai food, you might surprise her by taking her to a Thai restaurant for your next date. Consider using your phone’s notes app to jot down things she likes so you’ll know what to get her for her birthday, Christmas, or your anniversary.

Similarly, you might sign off each night with a text like, “Dream about me! Love you” or “Sleep well, beautiful. "

“Hey I need a new band to listen to, any suggestions?” “What should I say when I meet your mom?” “Do you think my red Chucks would look good with this shirt?” “I think my boss has me confused with my coworker. Can I get your opinion on what I should do?”

Say something like, “I can’t get anything done because I just want to text you all day. " Or, you might say, “I miss you so much that it’s starting to turn into a problem. Date tomorrow night?"[9] X Expert Source Jan & Jillian YuhasRelationship Coaches & Boundary Specialists Expert Interview. 19 August 2021.

“I’m so sorry you’re feeling overwhelmed juggling school and work. Want me to send over some take-out so you don’t have to cook tonight?” “Don’t worry about that interview—you’ve got this!” “I hate seeing you sad. Is there anything I can do to help you feel better?"[11] X Expert Source John KeeganDating Coach Expert Interview. 10 June 2021.

“I was thinking we should take a road trip next year. Is there anywhere you’ve always wanted to see?” “After graduation, we should get an apartment together!” “When we live somewhere with a lot of land, we should get baby goats. " Sharing the same long-term goals is a great sign that you’re with the right person. [12] X Expert Source Jan & Jillian YuhasRelationship Coaches & Boundary Specialists Expert Interview. 19 August 2021.

You might say, “Do you remember that time we went to the museum? I have a confession—you looked so pretty in that blue dress that I couldn’t pay attention to the art at all. " Or, you could say, “I was just thinking about the day we met. You had this smile that lit up the room and I knew I had to find out more about you. I’m so glad I did. "

If you hear a song with lyrics that make you think of her, send her a link. [14] X Expert Source Suzanna MathewsDating & Relationship Coach Expert Interview. 18 August 2021. If you see a gif that you think would crack her up, add it to a text with a note that says, “Thought of you!” Going through your gallery and you found a pic of her that’s super pretty? You got it—forward it to her with a text that says something like, “OMG you’re gorgeous!”

“Thank you so much for making me breakfast this morning! You always get my day off to a good start. " “You’re such a hard worker. I really appreciate that about you. " “You make me a better person. "