It’s pretty hard to get your tone across over a text message, which is another reason why you might want to save the heavier topics for a later time. Try talking about things like your pets, your friends, and what you like to do for fun.

“How’s your day going?” “How was work today?” “How was the weather at the beach?”

“What do you like to do on the weekends?” “How many siblings do you have?” “How long have you been at your job?” “What are you studying in school?”

“Did you watch Riverdale last night? That episode was crazy!!” “How was skiing last weekend? Did you try any blue runs?” “I heard your favorite band was coming to town! Did you get tickets for the show yet?”

“You have such a good sense of humor. ” “Your smile is so beautiful. ” “You’re such a kind person! I’m so lucky to know you. ”

If you aren’t quite sure what her humor is like yet, just send a meme that you think is funny.

“About to go on a run. Hope I don’t run into a pole like that guy in the vid!” “Hope you ace (not ice!!!) the test today!”

For instance, you could say something like, “How are you today? ❤️” Or, “Can’t wait to see you later😘”

“Nobody’s perfect, but you’re so close that it’s scary. ” “The only time I stupidly smile at my phone is when you text me. ” “I always wake up smiling nowadays, and I think it’s your fault. ”

“Have any plans this weekend? I was thinking of checking out that new coffee shop if you wanted to join me. ” “I’m going to be in your area next week, are you free to meet up at all?” Some girls get a little shy about meeting up in person, especially if you two don’t know each other IRL yet. If that’s the case, just give her some time, and keep having a text convo with her until she’s ready.

Everyone faces rejection at some point in their life. All you can do is look toward the future!