“I always get lost in your eyes. Every time I look into them, I feel like I’m going on a journey that’s going to change me. 🗺️” “I love hearing you speak. Every word is like music to me. 🎶 Can you send a voice memo?” “Hey, what do you think of this news story? You’re one of the most intelligent people I’ve ever met. You’re my local expert on economics! 🤑”
“Who are three famous people you’d bring to dinner? What would you serve up? 🍽️” “What are you most grateful for?” “How would you describe your childhood?” If you’ve already been on a few dates, it’s usually a good idea to touch on subjects that you talked about during the date, especially things that you saw she enjoyed talking about or her passion points.
“Wow. Your school schedule does sound intense. It sounds like you love your program and your teachers are great, though!” “It can be exhausting to travel during the holidays, for sure. But you’ll get a lot of time to catch up with your family! “Yeah, it can be hard to focus when your room’s disorganized. I bet a bookshelf will help a lot. You can get everything off the floor! 📚”
If she replies with a lot of emojis, she’s really excited. For example, if she hits you with this: “🤣🤣🤣”, then she wants to give lots of encouragement. If you send a weird meme and she sends back an equally odd one, then she wants to relate and bond with you. If you two are texting back with one gif after the other, then it’s a sign that she wants to put a lot of effort into the conversation and keep it funny.
Start off with an attention-grabbing opener: “😲 So, I was standing by the bus stop, and a man on a unicycle came speeding over…” Include details that connect to some of the five senses: “. . . the campfire and the pine trees smelled amazing, and the stars were unlike anything you’d see in the city…” Focus on your emotions and she’ll feel really sensitive. For example, you can say, “I was raised to be really tough, and I never got to talk about how nervous I can get. ”
“It’s way too early to know who you really are. Change my mind. 🧠” “I’ve got tons of opinions about this. Here, watch this clip and tell me what you think. ” “Found this quote that inspired me. What’s your take on this? 🤔”
“I am swamped with work, but I can’t stop thinking of you. You’re a beautiful distraction. 😏” “I’m not going to be able to get any sleep if you keep posting pics! 😳” “You’re too much for me, but I also just can’t get enough! 😭”
“Saw a poster of that standup comedian. I was just thinking about how I could see you on stage! 🎤” “I can’t watch this movie without you. I need you to bring over some popcorn and all your running commentary. 🍿” Studies suggest that the more you express how you appreciate her and feel attached to her, the more she’ll also feel a strong bond with you. [9] X Research source
“We both have nothing to do this weekend? Well, let’s change that! 🪄” “You really think they have the best pizza in town? Let’s go and see if I agree with that. 🍕” “A farmer’s market crawl? 🍇 What?! Sounds fun and healthy! Let’s do it. ”
“I am so lucky I get to see you every week. 🍀” “Every day, I wake up and think about how amazing you are. ☀️” “I can have the worst day and it won’t matter because you’re in my life! 😍”
“You get my heart pounding. ❤️” “You take my breath away. ” “You light me up. 🔥”
“Hey, how’ve you been holding up?” “I know you’ve had a rough day. I’ll be over soon. 🤗” “I’m always here to listen to you. ”
