This is a sign that doesn’t like stringing people along, and opening up a straightforward conversation is the easiest way to see where your relationship is at. Saying something like, “Would you ever be interested in a relationship with me?” is a good way to open this kind of conversation. [2] X Research source If he isn’t messaging you unless it’s already night, he’s probably not looking for anything more than a casual fling. A Sagittarius that wants something more won’t just talk to you only when he wants a hook-up.
If he hasn’t said anything about any feelings he has about you, he could just be thinking of your relationship as a passing diversion. Or, he could just be waiting to get to know you some more—sometimes only time will tell!
Some signs love the mystery and excitement of playing hard-to-get, but not a Sagittarius. They grow frustrated with this game very quickly, and will exit a relationship fast once it’s clear that the other person is playing games with them. [6] X Research source
If your Sagittarius doesn’t seem interested in really getting to know you, this could be a sign he’s more interested in pulling you into his orbit than sharing a life with you.
This doesn’t mean that he needs to invite you to everything he does—a Sagittarius will always want to have an independent circle of friends, and will want you to as well. But if he’s not making an effort to have new experiences with you, chances are he’s not interested in a deeper relationship. [9] X Research source
When a Sagittarius is ready to settle, he’ll be loyal and a wonderful partner. But getting to that point might take a while! Being ruled by playful Jupiter means that the childlike sensibilities of a Sagittarius outlast a lot of the other signs, which can keep them away from commitment. [11] X Research source
Sagittarians love to flirt, and they’re good at it too. These charmers can sweep you off your feet with their self-confidence and wit. But part of what makes them such good flirts is that they treat flirting like a game, and since it is a game to them, they can back out at any time. If you aren’t able to identify a moment when he ever got more real with you, this could be a sign he hasn’t decided to commit his feelings to you yet. [13] X Research source
This sign can have a very one-and-done personality, moving on to the next thing very quickly. If he seems reluctant to keep going out with you, try not to take it personally. The Sagittarius will think of his time with you fondly, and will hope you will too. [15] X Research source
Ruled by philosophical Jupiter, Sagittarians love deep talks about politics, philosophy, and art, and will want to have a romantic partner that can contribute to these conversations. A Sagittarius will want to get to know how you see the world if he’s really interested. Ask him what kinds of movies or books he likes, and see how he responds when you tell him about your own opinions. [17] X Research source
Sagittarians have a reputation for brashness, but this doesn’t mean they lack empathy. In fact, being ruled by the philosophical Jupiter makes this sign extremely good at putting himself in other people’s shoes. [19] X Research source
