“Wish I could see your handsome face right now. ” “Too bad you aren’t here right now… The things I’d do to you…” “Hope you’re ready to stay up late tonight. I’ve got some exciting things planned for us ;)”
To really set the mood, try lighting some candles and playing soft music. The more relaxed he can get, the better!
If you normally dress casually, try putting on a fancy outfit. If formalwear is your go-to look, try putting on something sultry and revealing.
If you want to, you could even try watching porn together. But, if you’re not into that, go for an R-rated show, like The Witcher or Game of Thrones.
Feeling stuck? Try looking up moves you can try on YouTube.
If you’ve already explored your entire house, try going somewhere else! A hotel room or an AirBnb can be just the spot to add a fun, new element to your sex life.
Not sure what you’d be into? Try getting a book on sex from your local adult store.
For instance, you might say, “Remember our honeymoon? The beach was so pretty, but I remember we barely left our hotel room… Or should I say, the bedroom. ”
You could even tell him to just get in the car, then drive him to a surprise location.
For instance, if he did more chores than usual that day, you might say, “The house looks so good, honey! Thanks for taking care of all those chores, you really blew it out of the park today. ” Or, if he’s had a tough week at work, you could say, “You’re doing so well at work, even with all your extra responsibilities. I know it’s stressful, but you’re doing amazing. ”
You might say something like, “I’ve noticed that we haven’t been having as much sex as we used to lately. I know that we’re both busy, but it would make me feel better if we could both try to make time for physical intimacy. ”
