It may be much easier for you to meet new people if you aren’t stressed out on your first day. If your school requires a uniform, no worries. Just have it laid out and ready to go the night before.
For instance, if you’re a huge BTS fan, you can put up some photos of the band (if your school allows it) and if any other fans pass by your locker, they may notice your photos and talk to you about it. Boom! Now you’ve got a new friend!
It’s totally understandable to be annoyed or a little stressed on your first day. But a scowl or an angry look on your face can quickly drive away people who may want to talk to you.
For instance, you could turn to the person next to you and ask something like, “Hi, do you know what page we’re supposed to be on?” After they answer you, you can follow up with something like, “Thanks, I’m always lost in these biology classes. Are you a big bio fan?” Who doesn’t like compliments? Try saying something like, “I love your bracelet, it’s really cool. ” If they say “thanks,” you can follow up with something like, “Where did you get it?” to keep the conversation going.
For example, instead of asking a closed question like, “Did you have a fun summer?” You could ask, “What was the coolest thing you did this summer?” or “Do you have any hobbies?” That way, they’ll have to talk more to fully answer the question.
Try sitting with your friend at lunch or during any breaks and talk to the people they hang out with to get to know them.
For instance, you could walk up to someone who looks worried or is sitting alone and say something like, “First days are always tough. I don’t really know many people here, what about you?”
For example, if you’re super into comics, chess, or basketball, chances are there’s a club or a team at your school you can join. If your school doesn’t have any clubs or teams that interest you, try starting one yourself!
For instance, you could check out the library and ask people what kind of clubs they like at your school.
For instance, if someone on the bus or in the cafeteria is rude or mean to you, don’t let it keep you down. They’re just one person and you have a whole school full of people you can meet.
