As one of the most dynamic signs, an Aquarius can be hard to pin down. If they’re willing to set aside regular time for you (like a weekly coffee date), your Aquarius might just have a crush! To keep an Aquarius interested, it’s important to give them space and time to recharge. For instance, if you see each other two days in a row, hold off on scheduling another hangout. Give your Aquarius their alone time, and let them be the first to reach out to plan your next get-together.

They’ll surprise you with little gifts, like flowers delivered to your door or a box of chocolates. They’ll pick you up from the airport and have your favorite snacks ready in the car. They’ll offer you a shoulder to cry on and treat you to a spa day the next day.

Instead of asking you out to dinner, they might send a link to a restaurant and say something like, “Woah doesn’t this place look good?” Respond with something like, “That looks amazing! Wanna check it out?”

Since it’s hard for Aquarians to open up, it never hurts to give them a little extra validation. Say something like, “Thanks so much for sharing that with me!” Remember Aquarians are often drawn to wacky, edgy topics, so don’t be surprised if your Aquarius is interested in things you’ve never even heard about. Aquarians want to hear about your unique interests too. Don’t hesitate to share your own hobbies and favorite topics with them. ​​[6] X Expert Source Stina GarbisPsychic Astrologer Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.

They might bring up personal topics like their family, their past relationships, and their life philosophy. Their tone of voice might get softer, or they might smile and laugh more around you. Aquarians are true visionaries. If your Aquarius starts talking to you about their future dreams and goals, chances are they’re testing to see if you to be a part of that future!

It’s normal for an Aquarius to use their oddball sense of humor and wild stories to impress a crowd. If you think an Aquarius likes you, see if they look for your approval when they start showing off at parties. When you show up at a social event, wear something unique and edgy to catch your Aquarian’s attention. [8] X Expert Source Stina GarbisPsychic Astrologer Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.

To win your Aquarius over, show them the same level of interest. When they talk, put your phone away and ask follow-up questions like, “And then what happened?” or “What made you start thinking that way?”

Show your Aquarius your true self and don’t be afraid to teach them all about niche interests or unique topics no one else understands.

If you’re not familiar with a topic your Aquarius brings up, don’t sweat it. Aquarians welcome honesty and they’ll find it refreshing if you say, “I’m not super familiar with that. Could you tell me more about it?” Start an intellectual conversation with your Aquarius by asking, “If you could change one thing in the world, what would it be?”

If an Aquarius man or woman touches you on your face, shoulder, waist, or forearm, there’s a good chance they’re flirting. [11] X Research source For an Aquarius, physical contact is tied up in emotions—when they feel comfortable holding your hand or cuddling with you, it’s their way of saying, “I like you and I feel safe with you. ”

Here’s a classic Aquarius move: You might think they’re about to go in for a kiss, and then… nope! They pull away and start talking about political reform or a centuries-old philosophical debate. Aquarians might also send you a short compliment text or funny text from time to time. [13] X Expert Source Stina GarbisPsychic Astrologer Expert Interview. 10 December 2021. Then, one day, you might notice they start sending longer messages more frequently.