Another good sign is if you catch her glancing your way from across the room. If you want to flirt back, hold her gaze. Is she glancing away a lot or does it seems like she’s not giving you her full attention? This might mean that she’s bored, uncomfortable, or wants to be somewhere else.
Crossing the arms and legs is usually a standoffish body signal. It means she’s closing off to you or feeling vulnerable. If she’s showing open body language, match her signals. This is called mirroring and it shows her that you’re receptive to her, too.
She might also give you subtle, half-smiles if she’s being flirtatious. Batting the eyes might seem cliche, but it is actually something that people do when they’re flirting. If a young woman is fluttering her lashes at you, she probably likes what she sees.
She might also make her voice a little softer on purpose. Go ahead, lean in closer to hear what she’s saying!
If she smiles and doesn’t pull back, great job! You might even find that she starts initiating more physical contact if she’s interested in you. If she doesn’t smile but doesn’t pull away, keep flirting and continue to gauge her reaction. Of course if she backs off, make sure to respect her space and boundaries.
Being available also means that she’s quick to respond to texts and social media messages. Keep the conversation going so that you can deepen your connection.
For example, if she says something like, “Wow, I’m so glad you’re here! Let’s have fun!” that’s a great sign that she’s flirting with you. Sure, a girl might smile even if she’s not into you, but it probably won’t be a big grin or the smile might not reach her eyes. A forced smile means she’s probably not interested.
For example, if she tells you about her passion for her job or education, she may be figuring out if you share those same values.
While it’s cool to have her compliment your smile, it could mean something more if she talks about loving how mature and responsible you are.
She might even ask you what you think about her outfit or how she looks. This means she really wants you to notice her!
Taken together, all these little clues tell you that she wants you to notice and like her.
