For a masculine look, try a dashing and well-put-together look, such as a nice sweater and slacks. For a feminine look, aim for something artistic and whimsical, like a flowing skirt and lace top. Soft, light colors will catch Libra’s eye. Try a pastel shade of blue, as it’s Libra’s lucky color—and blue symbolizes peace and tranquility, which Libra values highly. Dress to suit the occasion and avoid wearing something that looks too impractical. Libras like to see that you’re comfortable.
“Talking to you is so easy. You’re sweet, thoughtful, and I always know you’re listening to me without judgment!” “You look so put-together every time I see you. I admire your eye for fashion and color coordination!” “Smart, compassionate, AND gorgeous? You really are special. "
When she asks how your day is going, send her a picture rather than saying “good. " Take a photo of your artisan latte from a coffee shop or sunlight hitting the book that you’re reading. Show her an aesthetic selfie. Have your clothes or makeup match the lighting or capture a certain mood with your photo. If you do have artistic hobbies, tell her about them. “I’d love it if you took a look at my poetry—you’re so creative, I bet you could give me some inspiration. "
“I think it’s awesome that you’re such a bookworm—I am, too! What are your favorite titles?” “If you could go back in time and meet someone famous, who would it be?” “What’s the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen?”
“If you could change something about the society that you live in, what would it be?” “I’d love to hang out this weekend, but I’m volunteering for a local food drive. Wanna join me?” “I’d like to start volunteering at the animal shelter. Would you be interested in doing it with me? I think it’d be a great way to give back AND spend time together!”
Make eye contact with her and nod your head to show a Libra that you’re listening to her. Ask clarifying questions such as, “What did you mean by that?” or “How did you figure that out?” based on what she tells you. Save your questions and comments until she’s done talking—avoid interruptions!
Build anticipation for a date without getting explicit. “You’re going to love what I wear tonight! Can’t wait to see you. " Instead of going into detail about an X-rated dream, you could say, “I’ve been dreaming about you all day!” Send her a thoughtful text. “You look beautiful today. I know that because you’re gorgeous every minute of every day! 😘”
Little polite gestures will go a long way with a Libra. Hold the door for her, walk her home, and offer your jacket when she’s cold. If you’re feeling confident, go the extra mile and offer her flowers or pick up her favorite coffee order before you hang out.
“Surprise! I saw your favorite band was in town, so I grabbed tickets. " “Ever been to a Renaissance fair? There’s one in town this weekend. We should go—and we can even dress up. You’d look amazing as a fairytale princess. 😉” “What’s one place in town you’d like to see but haven’t had a chance to? Let’s check it out together!”
Try asking her to hang out in a low-pressure way. “Any room for me in your schedule this week?” If she postpones plans, say, “No problem. Let me know when you’d like to try again—I just want to spend time with you however I can!”
