Getting him a small gift when he’s not expecting one. Initiating sex in a new place or at a random time (the more variety with role playing, toys, and positions, the better!). Trying a new activity together, like a cooking class or a recreational sports team.
The more topics you can cover with him, the better. Being able to engage with a wide variety of ideas is really engaging for a Gemini man. [3] X Expert Source Jessica LanyadooAstrologer & Psychic Medium Expert Interview. 12 November 2019. Constant banter is a must. Gemini men are sharp and love somebody who’s quick on their (verbal) toes. Geminis are dual-minded about things. Asking him questions like “Do you prefer New York style or Chicago style pizza?” would be a very entertaining conversation for him (he’ll find a way to like both). [4] X Expert Source Tara DivinaVedic Astrologer Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.
Try recreating your first date or the time you first met. It’s a fun chance to look your best and re-seduce him all over again while making him nostalgic for you.
Making social plans that don’t involve him. Taking time to explore your personal interests, hobbies, and passions. Focusing on and excelling at your career or entrepreneurial projects.
This doesn’t mean he’s losing interest in you! He values personal freedom and it’s in his nature to bounce around different social groups at a rapid pace. If a Gemini man feels that you’re acting jealous, he’ll get claustrophobic in the relationship. It’s important to give him some social breathing room. If you’d like to join him on more of his outings, start building up your social stamina now! It takes a lot of energy to sustain this guy’s social life.
If he’s distant during a mood swing, resist the urge to call and text him a bunch to check up on him. He’ll be moodier for longer if he feels closed in. There’s not much you can do to change a Gemini man’s sour mood. He’ll lighten up when he wants to (which is thankfully pretty quick).
This doesn’t mean you can’t express your feelings to him at all. Just tell him what you need in a tranquil, genuine way (think a soft tone, relaxed body language, and strong eye contact). Mind games or attempts at manipulation are useless against a Gemini. He’ll see through them immediately and might even turn them around against you.
Make a comment on the spot when he says or does something to bug you, but don’t drag it out. Make your point to him and then let it go. Explain how you feel calmly and logically (he responds better to this than heavy emotional outbursts). A talk with a Gemini man always goes better in person. Try not to discuss important things over text or DM’s.
You might hit milestones slower than expected, but keep an open mind! The wait will be worth it when you realize what a secure relationship you’ve built. Too many expectations make him even more afraid to commit and might push him away instead of bringing him closer to you. Gemini men can be unpredictable in terms of what they want in a relationship. Remember that he’ll never do anything to intentionally hurt you.
It takes a while for him to make a decision, but he’s in it for the long haul once he does. Look for signs he’s in love, even if he hasn’t said so yet. He’ll gush about you to everyone, dissect text messages, relive conversations, and talk about the little things you do like you walk on water. [8] X Expert Source Stina GarbisPsychic Astrologer Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.
Gemini men are generally proud of who they are and respect themselves. Remember that a Gemini’s alternating moods usually aren’t because of you. It’s just a part of his natural cycle. When you make a Gemini man feel truly accepted and understood, you’ll be rewarded with mutual respect, fierce loyalty, and a fun-filled romance.
