Adding a caption that says “miss me? ;)” to your selfie. Saying “Thinking about you 😊” to get her in a warm, receptive mood. Asking a playful question like “Are you thinking about last night as much as I am?”
“I miss the sound of your voice. It’s so quiet over here. ” “I miss how your hair hits me in the face when you try to make a ponytail in bed. ” “I love how beautiful you look in your nursing scrubs. ”
Keep her circumstances in mind when you ask for a picture. If she’s out fire fighting or teaching a class full of 2nd graders, she probably doesn’t have time to check your text and snap a photo. If she can’t or won’t send a picture at this stage, continue your usual conversation or try again another time when she’s less busy or in a flirtier mood.
It’s better to wade through the mundane “How’s your day going?” texts for a while and get a sexy reward later than it is to get suggestive too soon and ruin your shot. Patience is a virtue! If she’s not giving you any signs that she wants to move into hotter territory, don’t force it. Try again another time.
“You’ve been working overtime. Maybe I should come meet you in the break room…” ”I’m all alone in this big bed of mine. What should I do?” Sending a suggestive meme or GIF to keep things light (just make sure to keep it classy).
A gym selfie with a little skin or muscle showing The classic “shower snap. ” Try a selfie in the shower (if you have a water-proof phone case) or a photo of you in your towel afterwards with a cheeky caption like “all clean!” The cliché “it’s so warm in my apartment that I can’t even wear a shirt” text followed by a shirtless picture of you doing an everyday activity.
If you’re dirty talking, you can try prompting her for a racier photo with lines like “Mm, show me more,” “Now we’re heating up,” or “Oh yeah?” If you’re not sure what her photo-sharing boundaries are, just ask! Say something like, “Are you OK with sending revealing pics?” or “Are there certain things you’re unwilling to show in a photo?” This is also a good time to clarify if she’s open to receiving your dirty pictures (she may not be). Make sure you’re always communicating with her so you’re both on the same page. [7] X Expert Source Jacqueline HellyerLicensed Psychosexual Therapist Expert Interview. 15 October 2021.
”The only thing that would make that photo better is me in there with you. ” ”You’re so sexy 🔥 I can’t wait until I get to see this in person later. ” ”I can’t believe I get to date such a gorgeous girl 😍”
Try using a platform like Snapchat where photos are automatically deleted after a few seconds (and the sender is notified if a screenshot is taken). It’s unkind and inappropriate (and in some cases illegal) to share a person’s nudes without their consent. If they find out, the person may stop sending them to you in the best case scenario, and break up with you in the worst. [10] X Research source
“Do you want to see what you’ve done to me?” “Well now I have a huge problem on my hands. Can I show you?” ”Can I show you what that picture you sent just did to me?”
”No problem. I just thought it might be something fun to try in our relationship. Sorry to offend you. ” ”I understand. Personally I like sending sexy photos here and there. Is it OK to send those to you even if you don’t want to send one back?” ”I respect your choice. Can’t wait to see you later :)”
