You might mention a common interest when you ask him out. Say something like, “If you like Turkish coffee, you’d really like the new Mediterranean cafe. Would you like to try it out with me? I’d love to know what you think. " You could also try something more direct like, “I think we’ve got a lot in common. Would you like to go out this weekend?”
You’ll probably find that the more you get to know each other, the more expressive he is. Virgos can become dedicated partners. It just takes some time and patience.
For instance, skip a movie or concert and choose an intimate dinner instead. Want something with less pressure? Go out for ice cream and take a long walk so you can talk.
For example, you could say, “Tell me, have you missed me?” or, “If you want to come over tonight, I’ll make it worth your time 😉. "
Your Virgo man would probably jump at the offer of showering together. Make it a fun part of foreplay! If you’re choosing lingerie, pick classic, elegant styles. Virgos aren’t drawn to flashy, dramatic styles.
Don’t be surprised if your man suggests spending time at his place. He probably feels more comfortable and in control since he knows the space is just how he likes it.
He might enjoy it if you start by sipping drinks and talking before you move the bedroom. It’s a little old-school, but this is what Virgo loves.
You could also share things you’d like to try and ask him what he prefers in the bedroom. Remember, this builds a connection that’s really important to your Virgo man.
He’ll probably also take his time with pleasuring you. Don’t expect frantic, rushed kisses or a race to the bedroom.
For example, you might groan when he starts kissing your neck or you might say, “I love it when you stroke my side. "
