Resist the urge to cancel your plans or keep your schedule open for the Scorpio you like. Someone with a full schedule and a busy life is much more appealing to a Scorpio, even if it means she sees you a little less.

If you’re talking about a trip you took, don’t give her a list of everything you did. Simply say something like, “It was a really amazing experience. " That leaves room for her to ask about what you did and all the sights that you visited. When you’re out catching up with an old friend, avoid texting her a rundown of your entire friendship story. Simply say, “I’m downtown getting drinks with a friend. " Soon she’ll be asking who your friend is and what bar you’re at.

Instead of playing games and purposefully waiting hours to respond each time you text, try filling up your schedule with things you enjoy. That way, you’ll be too busy to respond every couple of minutes, but won’t come off like you’re messing with her head. Try not to go multiple days without texting her, though. While you don’t want to be clingy, you also don’t want to see like you’re bored of her. [5] X Expert Source Joshua PompeyRelationship Expert Expert Interview. 27 November 2019.

If you want to talk about the first time you met, say something like, “I’m so glad you were in class that day. What would’ve happened if we hadn’t been assigned as lab partners?” To talk about your first date, you might text her, “Woke up thinking about our first date. Remember how late we were to the movie? I don’t even know how we followed the plot. " Remind her of a great conversation you shared by saying something like, “I’m still thinking about that debate we had about existentialism. It really changed how I see things. "

Keep the dates you set with a Scorpio or reschedule with plenty of time in advance if you must. A Scorpio might take it as a sign of disrespect if you cancel on her last minute. Anytime you offer to help a Scorpio, make sure you really do what you say you will. If you offered to give her a ride to work, show up on time (and maybe even bring her a candy bar or bag of chips that she likes).

If she hasn’t responded to your texts in a few days, throw yourself into a fun project to distract yourself instead of following up.

You might try a restaurant with a secluded back patio or a park with a quaint boardwalk. To up the romance, show up to your date with a bouquet of flowers.

Next time she says something funny, text her something like, “You’re seriously hilarious. You make me laugh more than anyone I know. " If she’s wearing a particularly cool ensemble, tell her. You might say, “I love that leopard print top. You’ve got such great style. "

If you’re active on social media, you might consider sharing a picture from your travels (especially if this Scorpio follows you).

You might try going for a new job, applying to school, or starting an online fashion business. Whatever you’ve been dreaming of lately, don’t let your feelings for this Scorpio distract you. Even if it seems like she’s losing interest, try not to cling. Instead, take that as encouragement to do your own thing.

It’s hard to feel confident all of the time (especially on a date). To boost your faith in yourself, try repeating encouraging phrases in your head before a big date. You might try, “I am smart and sexy and a total catch” or simply “I’ve got this!” You can also boost your confidence by wearing a stylish outfit or getting a cool new haircut. [14] X Expert Source Joshua PompeyRelationship Expert Expert Interview. 27 November 2019.

You might try flaunting what you might normally hide. Do you have an old Pez collection that you simply can’t part with or so many books that your room resembles a library? That’s the kind of stuff that will really make you stand out.