To help your Libra with their indecisiveness, give them just a few choices so they don’t get overwhelmed. You might say, “Your turn to pick lunch. Are we doing Thai food or burgers? I could totally go either way. "
It’s important to accept your Libra for who they are, but that doesn’t mean you can’t stand up for your feelings. You might say, “I noticed you were getting friendly with that girl. It made me feel uncomfortable—like I wasn’t even there. "
For instance, they might make a rude comment if you’re looking a little sloppy or thrown together. To avoid their criticism, take time getting yourself ready before you see them. They’ll appreciate that you look polished and put together.
You can encourage or inspire your Libra to do things or make changes, but don’t push too hard or they may shut down.
To prevent issues, encourage them to share their feelings. For example: “You agreed to hang out this weekend, but I get the impression you’d rather do something else—I’m okay with that. What are your thoughts?”
If you bring up a concern, use language that describes how you feel instead of accusing them. For instance, instead of saying, “You flirt too much with other guys,” say, “I feel hurt when I see you flirting with other guys. "
For instance, maybe your Libra promised you they’d bring a bottle of wine to dinner and they show up empty-handed. In the future, you might preface your request by saying, “I know you’ve got a lot on your plate right now. If you don’t have time to grab the wine, I can definitely get it. Just let me know. "
Work on developing effective communication early on in the relationship so your Libra will feel more comfortable talking about things with you.
